Honoring my 92 year old Father, Veteran and a Good Man!
9/4/27 – 3/12/20 Rest in Peace!
Posted in Answer to Prayers, tagged depression, faith, Feeling lost, Grieving, hope, widowhood, widows on January 31, 2020| Leave a Comment »
Sometimes in widowhood, when we’re grieving for our loved one, we find ourselves in a very low and dark place. Some how, we can’t find the right words to express to others what we are feeling. We’re lost in a world with no way out.
In these difficult times, we need to look up and ask God to rescue us…. He’s been there, and always will be… He’s just waiting for us to ask…..
Lauren Daigle expresses it well in her YouTube“Rescue” by Lauren Daigle
Posted in Answer to Prayers, tagged faith, God's love, Grieving, heaven, hope, love, peace, prayer on August 31, 2019| Leave a Comment »
Sometimes we just need a subtle reminder that God is still with us. There are times and circumstances that are beyond our control. So this is just a reminder, that whatever you are going through….YOU ARE LOVED and this is God’s reminder.
This picture shared from my friend Ferree Hardy’s website….Widow’s Christian Place.
Posted in Grief Resources, tagged faith, grief, grief journey, loss of spouse, widow, widow retreat, widowhood on January 11, 2019| Leave a Comment »
This is a great way to meet other widows who understand the GRIEF that goes with widowhood! Please visit Ferree’s website “Widow’s Christian Place” for more information on the retreat at Sandy Cove Ministry Center in North East, Maryland.
Sandy Cove Ministries is putting on a retreat, stating that this is…..
“A weekend for women of any age who are WIDOWS and at any point in their journey.
People say, “Isn’t it wonderful he’s with the Lord,” and you want to yell, “No! He should be here with me.”
Spend a weekend with other women who have lost their husbands to death. You will be with people who understand your journey. Come share your heart and your hurt and be encouraged as we remind ourselves that, hard as it is, our God is able. Learn from women who are where you are, women who have weathered grief and difficult times.”
Posted in Answer to Prayers, tagged Christmas Ideas, faith, healing, hope, miracles, peace, prayer on November 17, 2018| Leave a Comment »
My story “A Serious Back Injury” is included in this book of testimonies. (Page 122-124) These stories can strengthen your faith and inspire you to trust God during times of sickness or injury.
For the entire month of November, the ebook version of I Believe in Healing: Real Stories from the Bible, History and Today is on sale for 99¢ at most major online vendors. This book from Cec and Twila is a one-of-a-kind collection of stories that demonstrate God’s healing power.
This may be a Christmas Gift idea for someone who is struggling with sickness or injury.
Posted in Grief Resources, tagged death, faith, grief, grief journey, prayer, widowed parents, widowhood, widows on August 21, 2018| Leave a Comment »
The Kindle Edition to my book, “A Widow’s Pursuit” is now available on Amazon. Purchase it, if not for yourself, maybe for someone going through grief who needs to know it’s OK to feel crazy for awhile!!!
As a “Thank you”, if you read my book, and feel it’s a good read for others, please write a review on Amazon. Once it appears, let me know and until the end of September, 2018, I will be happy to send you a signed hard copy to share with others!
Email me at: cindyspursuits@yahoo.com
Posted in Answer to Prayers, tagged coping with death, faith, grief, prayer, widowed parents, widowhood, widows on July 1, 2018| Leave a Comment »
Sometimes it’s hard for me to remember just how painful life was when I first became a widow. In my book, “A Widow’s Pursuit: Finding Out There’s More to Life than Grief”, I spent a substantial amount of time grieving. I had to! There’s a time in life for everything.
Fortunately, I made sure that God led me through. I made it a habit to pray for every decision I had to make. When I felt his peace, I took that as a sign I was on the right path. When I didn’t feel his peace, I took that as a sign it was not his will and changed my path.
As my grief subsided, and my new life unfolded, God promised me joy and the blessings are still coming, 23 years later!!!
My 2 daughters, who were 6 and 7 at the time their Daddy passed, have grown into the 2 most beautiful women a mother and father could only imagine!
Jessica (the oldest) became a nurse and married Brandon, who have 2 children of their own, Caleb and Isabelle, with another on the way!!! (For anyone that knew Jessica or has read my book of all the challenges of raising her as a single parent, only God can take credit for the transformation in her life!)
Nicole (the youngest) obtained a communication degree and married Teigan, who have a daughter, Mila. Even though they live cross country, I know that God continues to watch over her and her family. That gives me comfort!
In 2009, I found love again and married Joseph. At one time, I didn’t think this would be possible, to love again. I have been blessed beyond belief.
And now Joseph’s daughter, Emily (my step-daughter), will be getting married this year to Randy. God is good and answers prayers!
There IS a time for GRIEF, however, there IS a time for CELEBRATION and JOY as well!!!